our first two weeks in the tribe: part three

Survival!

That is how much of our time in Maliyali was spent--simply surviving!  For real, everything just takes so long when you don't have conveniences!  That was really okay with us though, because it kept us busy :) 

So, here are some of the things we had to do, just to live there in the tribe.  (When we actually move into the tribe (after our houses are built), things will be different.  This was more like a bush camping trip).

The biggest thing was feeding our families, and everything that goes along with it!  

preparing the food...peeling sweet potatoes and cooking bananas

Chopping firewood!  The people were so sweet to consistently bring us firewood (although we also chopped our own wood, too)  We were sitting on the ground talking one night and we saw our friend Miriam carrying a huge load...so Emily went to help her.  

making the fire...

Emily was a boss at making fires!  She told me her dad taught her everything she knows about making fires...he definitely would have been so proud of her if he saw how many fires she made!

waiting for the food to cook...

And we could finally eat!  We ended up eating in David and Emily's house for almost every meal.  Mealtimes were good team time :) 

Doing dishes...sometimes we had rainwater to wash them in, other times we had to hike to the creek to wash them because the rainwater tank was empty.

Miriam helping us wash the black stuff off of the pot...they use a leaf to scrub it all off and it works pretty well!

Also, we had to wash our laundry by hand...which doesn't actually work very well, by the way :)   Haha!  Our clothes never got too clean!

And our hair :)  The bucket shower that we had at our houses was difficult for Em and I to wash our hair in...it just took too much water.  So when we wanted to wash our hair (which actually wasn't very often, lol!)...we went to the creek.

We frequently went to that creek to get water (when we had no rainwater).  We had a water filter in our house, to filter the creek water.

That silver thing behind Daisy is our water filter.  However, some days it couldn't keep up--we were drinking lots of water!  So on those nights,  we used a hand pump filter to give us more drinking water.  Whew!  Tiring!

 Going to the bathroom.  Ohhhh my.  That's another topic.  The outhouses they made for us were nice and new, but still just a hole in the ground!  With lots of bees swarming around.  Sigh.  It was always an adventure, for sure!

Here's Daisy, headed down to the outhouse to pee :)

The number one survival technique?  Remembering God's truth.  We had a theme for our camping trip...Hebrews 12 "Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus".  It was so important to keep our minds renewed in the Truth...for us and for our kids.  Here, Nathan is sitting down to do a little devotion with the kids.

(I hate for these blogposts to get too long, so I'll stop this one and pick it up later...)

our first two weeks in the tribe: part two

Our First Day in Maliyali!

Like I mentioned in my last post...we were all feeling some major emotions that morning!  The helicopter arrived in Yifki, and we decided that Nathan and David would take the first flight over to Maliyali (along with cargo), and then the heli would come back to get Emily and I and our kids.  So we said goodbye to Nathan and David, and then waited.  Emily and I were a bundle of nerves.  My stomach was queasy, but yet we were also so excited!  Just so many feelings.

The helicopter flight from Yifki to Maliyali is only about 15 minutes!  (to hike that distance would take DAYS...isn't that crazy?)  So pretty soon, the heli came back for the rest of us!  We loaded up...

photo creds: Our helicopter pilot (thanks for taking some AMAZING pictures for us, Mike!)

Flying in a helicopter is a pretty amazing experience, let me tell you!  It's so loud, and you can see everything SO much better than in an airplane. It's just awesome.  Emily and I have marvelled to each other multiple times...is this really our life?  Calling airplanes and helicopters to take us to our home?  Sometimes it's just crazy to think about!

Pretty soon, we got our first glimpse of our new home!

It was a pretty overwhelming feeling, stepping into "our" tribe for the very first time.  And realizing that this remote corner of the earth will be our home for the next couple of decades!

photo creds:  our pilot Mike 

 photo creds:  Mike again!

Our Maliyali Family

photo creds:  Mike

After Mike took that last picture of us, he took off in the helicopter.  And after all that chopper noise, it was eerily quiet!  Lol.  What a strange feeling to be dropped off in the middle of the jungle!

Nathan and David took turns introducing their families to the Maliyali people...

After that, we started to get acquainted with our new home.  The Maliyali people made us and the Rimestads each a bush house to stay in!  Is that not so amazing?  We are finding out over and over just how hardworking and how motivated these people are.  

We had a little curious visitor go into our house :) Isn't he adorable?

Our guys worked with the Maliyali guys to set up our houses a bit.  They tied a tarp on to our house, so we could catch rainwater...

 And they set up another tarp for a makeshift "shower room"...Halle stood on Nathan's shoulders to help out with that!

The people even built each of our families an outhouse!  Seriously, it is so humbling to see all the work they put into welcoming us.  Here, Nathan is showing our kids the outhouse and how they will be peeing and pooping in a hole...lol!  I just love Layla's face!

 

 Here's the inside of our bush house, before we set it up.  We did bring a tent to sleep in, which ended up being SUCH a huge blessing!  At night there were so many bugs, and also every night we heard rats scurrying around, getting into our trash...(shudder).  I was so thankful to be safe in that tent!  I'm still a pretty wimpy person when it comes to bugs and rats!

Nathan and David had some long conversations with Sam (the "council"--kind of the man in charge)--and also with the other leaders of the village.  We are so thankful for those men!

We had an audience watching us pretty much the WHOLE day!

That pretty much sums up our first day in Maliyali!  Lots of people around us and watching us all day, us trying to settle into our bush houses, figuring out how to cook our food over the fire, etc etc.  I have lots more to tell you all, but I'll wait for the next post.  Thanks for reading!

our first two weeks in the tribe: part one

The last 3 weeks have been so full.  Full of excitement, anxiety, emotion, and lots of other feelings I really can't even name!  Just FULL.

I want to tell you all about our experiences, and the best way I know to do that is just to do a play by play.  So I'll start from the beginning...

On Monday January 16, we started the journey.  The first stop would be Yifki, which is another tribe that is somewhat close to Maliyali.  Yifki has an airstrip, and the missionaries and people there are so amazing to us.  We are able to use the Yifki airstrip to do helicopter shuttles to Maliyali, which is going to save our team thousands of dollars over the years!  

Nathan took the first flight to Yifki early that Monday morning.  He flew there, along with lots of cargo to unload.  David would go on the second flight, along with us ladies and the kids.  If you follow David on instagram (@david_rimestad), you probably saw the video he posted of Nathan in the airplane, all ready to go!  In the video Nathan said "I'm ready to jump bro!"...and that is exactly how we were all feeling.  We just needed to trust God to make this first "jump".

So the airplane dropped Nathan off in Yifki and then came back for the rest of us!

We were ready in our tribal clothes...only skirts for us ladies in the Yifki and Maliyali cultures!

Our NTM Sepik leadership was with us to see us off...I love this picture of Greg, our area leader!  These guys are the best, and they love our families SO WELL.

 Best support team ever!

So, once we got to Yifki we settled in for a couple of days.  You see, it is difficult to coordinate our flights, because we are dealing with both airplane and helicopter.  So it's not a bad thing, just details we need to deal with.  We wouldn't get a heli flight until Friday, so we would just stay in Yifki until then.  Thankfully, there is a house in Yifki that our families were able to stay in for our time there.  Those days were a great time of connecting with the missionary couple (Jon and Susan Kopf), and also the Yifki believers!

We spent time hiking and exploring...

 

Hanging out with the people...

The kids got to take care of some kittens, which was probably their #1 highlight!

We spent a whole day organizing.  Here, Nathan is organizing all of the tools and other cargo which would need to go to Maliyali on a flight about two weeks later.  There is so much planning and organizing that goes into this housebuilding stage of our lives!

We had to organize the food and other cargo we were going to be bringing in with our families...we tried to keep it as MINIMAL as possible.

Friday January 20 was the BIG DAY.  The helicopter arrived early that morning to take our families in to our new home...Maliyali!

Oh, the emotions we were feeling that morning!  I'll tell you all about it in the next post...stay tuned!

our next steps: we're gonna need PRAYERS!!!

Many of you might be wondering what our next steps will be, our timeline etc.  We are so happy to be able to share that with you now!  And we are going to ask for your prayers.  We are so thankful to do this alongside all of you back home--for sure, your prayers are what keeps us going!  So, thank you in advance!

Okay, so if you've been reading my latest blogposts, you know that we are headed for a tribe called MALIYALI.  So far, only Nathan and David have been in there--me and Emily haven't had a chance to go yet.  Mainly because it's VERY hard and long and expensive to get to!  But now, our families are preparing to go in and meet the Maliyali people!

However.  Not only are we going to meet the people, we are going to live among them for two weeks!  Two weeks might seem short, but as you all know, this is not like camping in the States.  Camping in the jungle will be much different, we are predicting :) 

Next week, we will helicopter in to Maliyali with the Rimestads...

So thankful to be doing this alongside amazing coworkers.  We really can't imagine doing it alone!

So, what's the game plan?  How will we live during our two weeks in there?

First of all, we will be living in a "bush house"--which is basically one of their houses.  Actually, the people are building two houses for us to use, which is SO incredibly nice of them.  And our guys will be able to use those bush houses all during the housebuilding season, which will be perfect.

This is one of the bush houses (it's unfinished in this picture in case you're wondering!!).  When our guys were in Maliyali back at the beginning of December, they had already started building it for us.  We are PRAYING that the houses will be done when we get in there!

During our time of bush living in Maliyali, we are going to be depending on the people for many things.  We really want to get to know them for a couple of weeks, and start this whole 20-ish year ministry with relationship.  We want the people to see us cooking over fires, depending on them for sweet potatoes, struggling to get our water, beginning to learn some language, using a hole in the ground for a toilet (okay, not actually SEE us doing that, but you know what I mean--ha!), etc etc etc.  This bush living will help us to identify with the Maliyali people--later on we will have some conveniences like stoves, washing machine, fridge/freezer, etc.  But for now, we will have none of that, and we hope it will show the Maliyali people that we are just regular people (actually, they'll probably think we're pretty stupid!)  They will see that we don't magically get our food and supplies just because we have white skin (a myth that many PNG tribes believe).  We are so thankful for this opportunity to get to know them in this deep way!

During our two week stay, we will:

Get to know this beautiful land that is to be our new home!  We will do plenty of hiking because a lot of the people are very spread out from each other.

We will hike to the river, which Nathan says is about an hour hike away!  T'hankfully we will have a (much smaller) water source that is closer than that.  Although when the guys last went in, that closer water source was not much more than a trickle (!!).  I think that's pretty rare though--but we are praying that God will let that water be flowing!

We will be able to check out the land that our houses will be built on.  Nathan told me that the land he marked is up on a hill (it's hard to find flat land in Maliyali!)  So he's not 100% sure if it's the best location, but we'll be able to look at it, see which way our houses should face, etc etc.

Our kids will get a chance to get to know and play with the Maliyali kids!  We're planning to bring a soccer ball and some marbles for our kids to do with their kids, but that is all (the toys) we are bringing.  Please, please, please pray for our kids!  Pray that they LOVE Maliyali!  Pray that they will be excited to go back!  Pray for kids that they "click" with!  Pray that they can be creative and have fun without ANY toys!  This will be very very different for our kids.  God has always been faithful to help them adjust in every place we've lived so far.  We know He will continue to be faithful, but this move is vastly different than any move we've had thus far!

We will spend lots of time getting to know the people.  This will be SO GOOD.  Nathan met this couple and he told me he thinks I will like this woman--and her name is "Baby" which is awesome :)  We are planning to do some basic language learning while we're in there--not 8 hour days or anything like that, but we want to get a start so the people can see that we are SERIOUS about wanting to learn their language!

On February 1, the helicopter will come back to get me, Emily, and our six kiddos.  And our men will stay in Maliyali for a WHOLE MONTH to begin milling lumber for our houses!  Yep, you read that right.  A month.  We are so glad our guys will be able to start doing things to build our houses so that we can really move in to Maliyali, but we are going to miss our husbands (and daddies) SO much.  We will update more during that time, but that's the game plan!

Also, just a heads up...Maliyali is a very remote place in PNG.  We will have no internet or phone access, so you won't hear from us at all while we're in there.  We will have a SAT phone for emergencies, and to contact the helicopter, etc.  And eventually we will have email through a radio--but not now.  

When we get back to Wewak in the beginning of February, we will be so excited to update you on our time in Maliyali!  In the meantime--please, please pray for us.  Pray for safety, health, and God-glorifying attitudes!  We REALLY need your prayers!

Thank you!  We are so thankful to be doing this alongside you all!